Somerset wrote:
My problem wasn't with how fast it was publicly labeled a birfer. I might have personally preferred to let it pretend for a little longer, but that's just my way of setting up a kill. A group toy gets played with by everyone. What bothered me was how quickly the name calling and other nastiness started. First, it's always possible that the person is actually not a birfer and is asking honest questions. Pretty damn unlikely, but a little restraint might might make a friend out of a potential advisory.
Second, and more importantly, I think we hurt ourselves when we do this. We expect this kind of treatment of us on the birfer boards. They don't want to listen to stuff that shoots them down, so they immediately launch into "Obot" trash talk against us. Lots of nastiness and zero substance. We might be used to it from them, but that doesn't mean we should return it in kind. When we engage birfers the same way they engage us, we sorta let them define us, and I don't think that's a good idea. We've already defined ourselves as professional, sharp, and unimpeachable. Treating birfer toys the way birfers treat us, at least before they've earned it by bringing up dead babies, doesn't seem like a good way to play.
/preachy mode
I beg your pardon, but did you actually read all of it, and see the whole timeline, before you started preaching? Or are you too busy to read it too?
And we DON'T return their "Obot trash talk" in kind. They have a nice playpen where we send them when they've started hardcore birfing, and they can birf there to their hearts' content, and you're welcome to go there and waste your time engaging them. All we did was announce that we had a birfer after he blatantly revealed himself. Sorry, but we don't need to wait for the dead babies or the AcornLady crap to know them and send them to their room.
Are you there engaging them? Or are you just preaching the holier-than-thou talk to us without walking the walk there? I don't waste my time in the birfer pen, so I don't know if you're actually there or not. But since you're telling us what we should put up with in the main forums, and since you seem to think that we're somehow letting them define us, I do hope you're over there correcting the situation.