Foggy wrote:
God damn it.
I do NOT have time for this drama. God damn it. I want the fucking drama to stop. Can't we have one fucking day without the god damned drama? Shit!
Thank you for your support. Now, having got that out of my system ...
I really don't want to ban CalperniaUSA. She's a longtime member and has always obeyed the rules. She DID have a legitimate beef with us posting the placeholder
and saying a photo of her was "needed".
Did y'all see that? I deleted it, but it DID say a photo of her was "needed". Hell, I'd have been PISSED at that myself.
I'm embarrassed that I didn't see that months ago. I apologize for it, though again, I don't know why the hell she didn't just tell me about it before. She and I have always treated each other fairly, and I would have taken it down long ago, if she had just told me about it.
She recently volunteered to help us with affidavits if Anthony Martin sued Justin. OK? She took down the Butterfly Lady's personal info off her site when I requested it. This is not a bad lady. Y'all have backed her into a corner. She said if the photo doesn't stay down, she'll try for the court order. To me, that means if the photo
does stay down, which it will, then there's no more threat of court action. But y'all are trying so hard to get her banned, she's got her back up.
I'm the same as the rest of you. I'm not afraid of any court action. I didn't act because I'm afraid of her or any lawyer in this great nation. I took it down because it was the right thing to do, and we're not putting it back up because that's the right thing to do.
Calpernia, I wish you'd make a public statement that if it stays down, which it will, then you're not going to bother with court action. Please PM me, too. I'm not your enemy.
If the threat of a lawsuit against us is still present, I might reconsider. For now, I'm giving her a pass on the threat. In a way, it took some courage to make the threat, since she just saw maxbond zapped yesterday. But she had a legitimate complaint, she just should have handled it a different way. If she had handled it right, nobody but her, me, and verbalobe would have known (OK, and listeme). If I'm reading her posts right, she's withdrawn the threat. She's just still ticked off because of the continuing effort to get her banned.
Last of the nice guys. But please, let's stop the drama. I'm sick to death of it, and I have no more time. Or I'll just disappear for 10 days or so and y'all can hash it out amongst yourselves. When I come back, I'll poke through the rubble for any possible survivors.
Edit: Photo, placeholder, whatever. Y'all know what I mean. It said a photo was "needed". Of one of our own members. I haz an embarrassed.

Just
2 a few points, Foghorn.
1. Sometimes folks make comments because they haven't gotten to the end of the thread. We all do it. Even you. Then we realize, oh, look at that, and edit our comment (often not always). We aren't trying to continue stirring the pot. This is a weakness in any forum setting. It is the nature of forums.
2. How is pointing out that a member has violated a forum rule "trying so hard to get her banned"? Now, I don't know if you have received PMs or something that support such a comment; I wouldn't be surprised if you had. After all, there is a little red triangle that is to be pressed when a board violation has occurred. But I don't see anyone "trying" to get anyone banned. Stating one's opinion isn't trying to "get her banned".
I am responsible for my words. Lisa O is responsible for hers. If she wants to play the threat game based on comments she doesn't like, then HER THREATS need to be evaluated. If she has a problem with something I have said, she can address me. She can address anyone about any of their posts. I don't see how that justifies continued threats against the site (even when her everything was removed). What you chose to do about it is your business. Now that I read your post, I shall go edit some of my previous posts.
3. Please don't hold board members responsible for knowledge that they had no way to access. It is fantastic that Lisa O offered help to you and Justin. There is no way for any of us to know that unless it is shared with us. Again, good for Lisa O. That was a stand-up offer. But members can only act/comment on what they know. For 99% of us, that is limited to what we read in public.
4. Alerting a mod regarding a forum violation doesn't mean that we are plotting against a member or "trying so hard to get her banned". I thought of pressing on the little triangle and decided to wait until I read the rest of the thread. Had I been posting WHILE this was occurring, I would have likely PMed one of the mods or you. I wouldn't demand anything. Instead, I would desire to WARN you of something that was posted that MIGHT warrant your attention. My intentions would be to protect you and the site by bringing an issue to your awareness. That is it.
Ya know what? I think that we all do a damn good job of doing our best and working with good intentions. Comments may get hot, but that doesn't mean we intend someone ill.