Thanks for all the kudos again.
But Loh and ducktape DO have a point.
I try to be even-handed, and I'll probably continue to try to be even-handed. I read once -- I forget where -- that working for a truly bad boss or dealing with a truly bad roommate is an opportunity for personal growth. At the same time I realize that I really shouldn't treat people like KenyanBorn equally with the people here that I admire, respect and love. But instead of insulting them or treating them unequally, I've been trying to find creative ways to deal with them. Maybe that's not the best approach, if Loh and ducktape think they're being treated equally with human garbage.
Those of you who saw my posts on GretaWire know that I can flame with the best of them (or worst, depending on your viewpoint). I made the phrase "
lying, unpatriotic, unAmerican birther SCUM" almost a trademark. When KenyanBorn joined up, she pissed me off the same as the rest of you. But instead of calling HER that, I
applied my trademark to birthers in general. I mocked her arguments. I tried out about eleventeen fake Jefferson quotes. I put her thread in Teh Funny Stuff and made sure she knew it was because I thought her arguments were a joke. No one can really accuse me of being nice to her, but I never did call her any names or say that SHE was lying, unpatriotic, unAmerican birther SCUM. Which she is, but I was trying to stretch my creativity. I was trying to be unpleasant toward her without personal insults, and I hope I succeeded, even if she seemed to deliberately misunderstand my attitude.
Loh and ducktape are eligible for membership in the Grumpy people, if they file an application.

Loh has damn good reason, after wrecking his shoulder and carving his head into a new and creative shape like he did. And ducktape and I share a special bond, after meeting in Phoenix. She can grump anytime she wants. She gets her dander up, and more power to her. It isn't like I've ever given a board warning to anyone who does insult a birther, I just nag now and then, like I do. But maybe there's a good reason NOT to treat birthers equally with the rest of you, even if they are registered members of the board. I'll work on that.
Noz got pretty much
exactly the 3 step treatment suggested by Reality Check. He was warned, and warned more than once. When he called Sternie "a hypocrite and a coward" he was baned for a week, but I let him come back. When he came back, he accused one member of giving $5 blow jobs and and another of "fingering yourself". He actually had
more than three strikes against him.
jy1977 couldn't keep from calling Dwight Sullivan a traitor. I warned him, then when he ignored several warnings I baned him for a week. I definitely would have let him back in -- get this -- seven days later. But he made at least four separate tries to re-register and sneak back in under the wire before the week expired, and all four times his first post accused Dwight of being a traitor again. He's the poster boy for "not getting the message," so he's brunt toast.
(Y'all can't see any new member's first three posts until they're approved by me or the mods. So you know.)
MichaelN is still a member. He's annoying in that he rehashes the same false arguments again and again, but he doesn't insult people and he doesn't really spam us, and if he keeps going like he's been going, he's not in line to be booted.
But I see a difference between those folks and KenyanBorn. It's true, I didn't warn her. She was under the impression that she wasn't violating any rules and that I'd protect her from the mods. She thought she was golden, and then I yanked the rug out. She sent me an email, by the way. She complains that "All I've done is post facts and post a few important current events."

She thinks maybe getting baned was "a mistake,"

and she's awaiting my reply (but I have important stuff to do).
Her reaction sort of shows the reason I didn't bother warning her in advance. Does anyone think a warning would have made the slightest impression on her?

She was a special case, quite different from Noz and jy1977, who showed up at least
pretending they wanted a rational debate on the issues. And they wanted to be part of the board, which KenyanBorn really didn't. Noz is
still pissed that he got baned. He's been posting on PJ and sending me PMs there to politely inform me that I'm a fascist moderator and a shitty human being and a hypocritical piece of crap without scruple. He's trying to worm his way back into my good graces that way, I reckon. And jy1977 still shows up in the chat room on R.C. Radio, in order to stay in contact with his good buddies from Fogbow.
But KenyanBorn made it clear that she didn't care if she was baned. A warning would have made her behavior
worse, IMHO. She was getting ugly enough, and would have gotten uglier.
Anyway, thank you all for giving me your thoughts. I'll ponder the idea of a special group, but my instinct is that you don't need birthers identified for you in order to be able to detect their presence.
At some point this weekend, I'm gonna take a shot at updating the "Registration agreement" that new users must agree to in order to register as members of the board. Right now it says:
Quote:
In order to prevent spamming on “Fogbow”, your first three posts will be subject to moderation, meaning that they will not be visible until approved by an administrator or moderator. If you are joining “Fogbow” in order to spam our forum, you will be unsuccessful. We welcome all political points of view, but will not tolerate any attempt to sell unapproved services or products to our membership.
That needs work, and I'll do some thinking about what the warning should be for birthers who are joining in order to troll us ...